I was watching the phillyD show and he always asks a question at the end of his little thingers.
i dont really like responding/commenting to things on youtube because Im not a retarded troll or stupid illiterate child… But the question did prompt me into some thinking and I realized that I did want to answer to it. Even if its just to myself… on my lonely lonely tumblr… har har harp.
SO! What went down was this thing where a 40 year old woman slept/blew (goodness me) three 14 year old boys. the question asked was whats the difference/whats worse between an older woman sleeping with young boys to an older man sleeping with young girls? I agree that in both cases I find it horrible, but I have to agree that there is a different degree… heres my thoughts..
In my opinion, when an older woman sleeps with a very young boy, the reaction is that woman isnt mentally sound. It feels like shes taking advantage of the boy who society tells that doing this will make him a “man” and high fives all around the cafeteria. Its a guy (granted a young one) but still a guy. Hes getting laid and so it cant be all that bad… Its gross but its the world. Hes too young to know any better and thats what makes it evil in its way. Its the idea of a young mind being tarnished and taken advantage of. When an older man sleeps with a very young girl the mentally sound thing comes to mind but also an evil forceful image of the act is there too. The idea of a more powerful person in physical strength doing this is something that drives a more negative and violent thought process. The young girl is either a victim of rape or considered a whore beyond imagine. A young girl sleeping with someone with a very significant age gap of her own free will is not something society finds acceptable or tolerable. She would be a blemish and a whore of the town. It wouldnt matter about consent it wouldnt matter about “love” (if that was on the table).
on the whole I think that in both genders its just Old creepy people taking advantage of a mind thats not fully developed, a body thats in a confusing/changing age and its the social ques and tenancies that shape the opinion/reaction of the children themselves. guys get high fives, chicks get socially ostracized. faaannntastic.